Changing Mask
Posted 06-03-2008 at 01:26 AM by kokiri_kid
Hmmm.... I like the blog here. It's simple and easy to use.
Recently, a friend told me to start being more judgemental and to not worry about hurting people's feelings when they want something from me I DON'T want to do.
I noticed that I disliked more people than I did when I wasn't judgement, and I seemed tougher. In actuality, I'm a very emotional and meek person, so I still feel a bit bad being a bit meaner to people (from there point-of-view).
Do you all think it was a good idea to try and change? I know it was a good thing, but I still can't help but feel bad.
Thanks for listening!
Recently, a friend told me to start being more judgemental and to not worry about hurting people's feelings when they want something from me I DON'T want to do.
I noticed that I disliked more people than I did when I wasn't judgement, and I seemed tougher. In actuality, I'm a very emotional and meek person, so I still feel a bit bad being a bit meaner to people (from there point-of-view).
Do you all think it was a good idea to try and change? I know it was a good thing, but I still can't help but feel bad.
Thanks for listening!
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Only be judgemental when you really need to be.
one of my friends has been annoying/thinks hes amazing/lairy because of a relationship with somebody, and today me and my best friend told him what we thought. and he REALLY deserved it. Including our special song. but yeah, the bit up the top and all that. |
 
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I agree with what FT said.
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Be judgemental but cousion it so I doesn't make people feel bad. Letting people know how you feel is good and help you but don't be rude. If your like me, you don't need anymore emimes.
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Be judgemental when u really need to, like when people deserve it. not when the one kid doesnt do anything right does something right for once and feels really good about himself. let him be happy
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Being overly critical of other people can never lead to any good. Be yourself, in the way that makes you most comfortable. Friends are friends, not absolute sources of guidance. You should always try to act naturally. BELIEVE IT!
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Well said Cyber.
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