men... :)
Posted 01-18-2009 at 06:18 AM by waistfull
Men often try to figure out what qualities women prize in a man. The problem is they too often look at other men for the answer. There are some qualities that women don't regularly see in men, but when they do, they treasure them (and him). We know that all women are different, but some of the qualities women prize are relatively universal. So, keep these in mind and surprise her with all your charming and attractive attributes.
Cooking
A man who can cook can mean so much to a woman. First, it means that she doesn't have to cook all the time in order to eat well. And second, it means that you're willing to spend the time to prepare something for the two of you to enjoy together. But most of all, it means that you're willing to throw away outdated ideas about women and her necessary proximity to the kitchen. Whichever meaning she values most, there is no doubt that she will be impressed with any skill you have in the kitchen.
Enthusiasm
Men love to play it cool. So when a man gets really excited about something in his life, women find that kind of raw emotion attractive. More than anything, it's especially fun if he's excited about his main lady. Seeing a man step out of his Mr. Cool persona is a sign of trust and intimacy, and sometimes there's just a lot more appeal to a guy who is willing to let go. So, feel free to have some fun and get a bit giddy about an upcoming event or opportunity.
If you'd like to get your lady really excited, show her that you can't contain your feelings about her. Call her even earlier than you said you would, ask to come to some of her events, or just be excited to be around her. Just keep in mind how fine the line is between adoration and clinginess.
Thoughtfulness
Thoughtfulness is a term that's thrown around a lot, especially in the relationship world. You don't want to focus on the giving flowers bit. Rather, what's impressive is the kind of forethought that allows a man to remember she had a stressful day and asks about it, or brings home some of her favorite wine, candy or food for no reason, or calls to wish her luck before a big meeting. The kind of thought that goes into this type of action is real caring and concern. Chances are, if you're thinking about her big meeting, it's because you're nervous for her; there's nothing much more adorable than that.
Get into her good books with a few more of the qualities women prize
Thoughtfulness sometimes goes beyond the "thought" realm, and into the world of sacrifice. It's very impressive, for instance, when a man is willing to endure two hours of a chick flick, or a walk through the mall in search of those "perfect" heels just because he knows it will make his girl's day. It's even better if you can make it seem like you're enjoying these activities, instead of just enduring them.
Genuineness
Although sometimes a big, manly show can impress a woman, a guy who's real will sweep her off her feet. A guy who's willing to show the world how he really is, apart from any stereotypes or ideals, is secure and honest. A guy this secure can also be a lot of fun because he won't be embarrassed by silliness, and has a good sense of humor about himself.
Having a genuine nature can also be a sign of trust in a relationship. A man who's willing to show his emotions in front of a woman is telling her how close he feels to her. In all, it's much easier to get to know -- and like -- a real guy.
Family values
A man who is into family, and who is supportive and involved with his own parents and siblings, is a prize in any woman's eyes. Women love to see this trait because they see it as a picture of how they'll be treated. If a man is patient, helpful and genuinely interested in his family -- even when they try his temper -- he's likely to be that way when he gets serious with his lady. Being close to your family also shows that you have a good support system and foundation, so you know how to love and be loved. As obvious as that sounds, there are folks who have trouble loving.
Women are also very attracted to men who love kids. Whether this is a woman's maternal instinct kicking in or if it's just darn cute to them is unclear, but what's definite is that few women can resist it. *had to put in dogs too
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Dang, thats a LOT of work...
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Women are overrated. They ask for too damn much.
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*applaused*
I'm not sure why you had such a big font, but you got it right. Of course, I'd kinda already knew this. It's a lot harder to implament, but I knew this. Take notes men! |
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one other problem i see....i man that is all that stuff you listed would probley be ghay also...
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Right...
How so? |
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Basically the female population should just turn homosexual and BAM! then you'll have all the qualities you want in a person.
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That is so desturbing corny. Dang. I can do most of this stuff. But I always thought the flower bit was good. Hmmm, I'll have to rethink that.
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omg I do at least half those things and still don't have a girlfriend
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That must mean something Phil.
I'm thinking it must mean that you're going to have to do something spectacular. Something extra ordanairy. I just don't know what that is.... We'll figure it out. |
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yeah, I should take up tap dancing! =D
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win the lottery , that will do it...if you can do that you wont need to do any of that other stuff...
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Yes budule, because we're all looking for someone that shallow. And Phil, you're right on the money
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You'd be surprised, SH.
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